In Tyumen there passed conference of fathers concerning education in a family

One of these days in an average comprehensive school № 66 of Tyumen there passed conference of the fathers as which organizer acted principal Tatyana Melehina. Similar meetings with daddies of pupils of an initial and senior link here are traditional. They pass once a year on various themes. The role of education of the father in a family, a mental condition of the child, and the factors defining it became a theme of this meeting.

Researches show that more often on a way of offences there are so-called "difficult" and "pedagogicheski started" teenagers. For such children the low level of development of educational abilities and public interests are characteristic.

On formation of ideals of such teenager excessive influence is rendered by group of contemporaries, as a rule, having experience of antisocial behavior. At the majority of difficult teenagers in structure of the person negative qualities dominate: laziness, lack of will, irresponsibility, an emotional impoverishment, aggression. For them fulfilment of offences in group is characteristic.

The reasons deviant (deviating norm) behavior are various, including psychophysiological features of development of teenagers, social conditions.

The main environment of formation of the child is his family. Owing to the employment, congestion parents often forget about children. Quite often adult consider that if their child is dressed, put and fed, they to the full fulfil the parental duties in respect of education of the child. Thus parents forget that the child has a constant requirement for love, care, heat and constant confidential dialogue.

The school inspector especially noted the facts of physical influence in a family, resulting some examples of cruel treatment with children, and reminded about articles of the Family code of the Russian Federation which parents well should know: item 61 of the family code of the Russian Federation says that mother and the father bear the equal rights and duties on education of the child.

Within two hours of 40 fathers who have come on conference, and the invited visitors: the director of center "Crossroads", the teacher of the department of pedagogics and psychology of the Tyumen state university and the school inspector discussed essential problems with children. Not less interesting there was practical training and discussion. 

In conclusion of a meeting fathers of school children suggested to spend similar conference and with mums. Also men stated offers on carrying out of practical actions for daddies with participation of the psychologist on which it would be possible to receive concrete recommendations about dialogue with own child in various life situations. Many parents offered the help to school in various directions.

Heads of families left limits of school with certificate of appreciation for a useful meeting and kind wishes to visitors and organizers of conference. Today they in another way looked at the successors as similar actions is the first step towards to own children. It is serious occasion to reflect not only on destiny of the child, but also about own responsibility for what person it becomes in the near future.

Elena Tcherkashina,

Press service of the Central Internal Affairs Directorate in Tyumen region

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